Jeff and I could not be more different. Maybe that's what causes some of our problems, but it's all good!
I'm Republican, he's Democrat.
I am a homebody/family person, he still enjoys his guy time and softball.
I am Lutheran (as are our children), he is Baptist.
I enjoy all things kids, he goes along for the ride (most of the time).
I like it cold, he likes it hot.
I'm from the North, he's from the South.
We like the same kind of music, we enjoy the same kind of movies/TV shoes (even though he'll never admit he enjoys watching Breakfast in Bed on SoapNet on the weekends :)...)
I can't fix most things, he can fix anything.
He's chocolate and I'm vanilla - hehe!!
Our food tastes are very different, but we can normally find something that pleases everyone.
We certainly have our issues. But when we have the big fights, and he actually finally says what is on his mind, then we get closer. I think if I could get him to communicate better, we'd be golden.
The yin does not work in with the yang for me when he places anything before us...doesn't happen often, and hasn't happened in a few years until last weekend :(. But we discussed it and though he still doesn't get a pass for skipping out on us, we are pre-planning the rest of our weekends to avoid that problem again.