S.J.
I cook with coconut oil as I would olive oil. Melts down in the pan just the same. And it smells DIVINE! My husband stuck his finger in the jar once because obviously it has to taste as good raw as it smells, right? Um, no.
I notice I do have to use a little more coconut oil to cook with than I did olive oil. Takes more to coat the pan it seems.
I have never baked with it.
I use Garden of Life Coconut Oil. Never disappointed. I find it at my local health food store.
Good luck!