okay how do i get my son to come to me when i call him to change his diaper? i have long ago abandoned the changing table/bed idea, he is 19 1/2 months and 32 lbs - the floor works best for us! so i have my little changing "area" in the corner of the livingroom, and my little changing "tub" with my diapers, changing pad, wipes, lotions, etc, and if he sees me down on the floor near that tub, he will NOT come to me. i have to physically go over to him and either lead him (if i'm lucky) or drag/carry him to the changing spot. it would make sense to take the "changing spot" to wherever he is, but then i have to lug all of the stuff over to him too. i always keep my voice cheerful, and he always has a toy to play with during changings - he's just not a real big fan. and it's worth noting, he comes to me at ANY other time, with a big smile, running like a lil puppy. (that's a bad analogy, lol) he's the sweetest boy ever, but this "passive" disobedience, i have no idea how to handle. and i know it's not that big of a deal, but it would make my life easier...any ideas??
have you started to potty train him yet? Maybe try letting him wear his diapers a little longer, he may not like it. try giving him one M&M when you changer his diaper, but just at that time only. i'm a mother of 4, grandmother of 13 and great-grandmother of 7 have a nice day. ada
He just probably doesn't want to stop playing to have his backside messed with- can't say I blame him. And he's getting more independent (that's a good sign cognitively!). For a while, you'll probably just have to get him and bring him to the spot. And maybe make sure it's not in an unappealing area (i.e., not a dark corner). Good luck!
HAHAHA There comes a time in every childs life when they think it is funny to not get their diaper changed! My son would run away laughing hysterically! I always used the floor and there were many times when I changed him where he was. Really all you need to grab is a diaper and a box of wipes, then again perhaps that is giving in, but you have to pick your battles wisely. :)
My son doesn't come when called either. He thinks it's a game and runs the other way when he sees me. I can change him wherever and I usually go to him if he is watching baby einstein. If he starts running from me, I won't chase him, I'll go the other way and then he'll come find me!! That's when I grab him and we laugh..I guess if we don't make a big deal about it they won't either, like the other mom said, choose your battles!! Take care and enjoy your son, they are at a great age! I have 3 kids, my 2 yr. old is my youngest and they're just wonderful as I'm sure your little guy is too. V.
Is there a certain toy that he likes or wants? Maybe you could put it up until it is changing time & at that time give him the toy to play with but only at that time. I know it is early but is he interested at all in the big boy potty? All kids train at different ages but we started working with our son when he was about that old. Maybe something new will spark his interest. Just a suggestion. All kids are different.
There are some fun little cards, books, picture frames where you can record your voice. You could record on it, or he could record on it, but ONLY when its diaper-changing time. Kids like hearing recordings. I also did a sticker chart to get my son excited about things. The chart could be at the changing area, and stickers are for when he comes. He can put some stickers on the chart, then lay down for changing.
Dear Carrie,
I say this salutation while laughing hysterically! My 2yr old son does the SAME thing! Some days, I am okay with it. But when I am in a hurry, it's frustrating. Therefore, I try to change his diaper before the situation tends to get busy, etc. I am also trying to come up with a "solution". Here is mine,it never fails, when I or his dad go to the restroom, he will try to follow. So, if I can hold it long enough, maybe I'll change him in the bathroom and maybe even get him used to doing the "potty thing" in that room. Otherwise, it's an open battle field, we've even tackled in the kitchen floor! Who knows what will work, by the time WE figure it out, they will be ready to use the big potty-LOL. Overall, I agree with the "disobedience" concern. I try to explain why it is necessary to change his diaper and that he can continue what he was doing when we are finished-just simple logic. Once I have him, he is cooperative during the changing process.
Enjoy the day and good luck!
E.-work f/t in spec. ed., two kiddos [8yr old girl and 2yr old boy], married 10yrs to childhood friend, will be finished with my masters degree in Dec.-life is flying but the Good Lord keeps me grounded!
He is just a baby. Do you always come running when called? I don't. He is showing you that he doesn't want to come right now. Kids will always test their boundaries. He is his own little person, with his own ideas, and how he wants to do things.
Hi Carrie,
How does he do at the daycare when they go to change him? Is it a "hassle" for them as well? Ask them what they do...if not just picking him up and taking him over. Hope all goes well.
What if you have him bring the diaper and supplies to you?
