We are different. I am an oddball on this one for this site. We feel it's our obligation to get our daughter out of college debt free. No way will I set her up to graduate college without thousands of $ in debt. That's just not right in my mind. Our daughter is 17 and will be a Senior next year, heading to college in the fall of 2013. College of her choice.
We've planned since I found out I was pregnant 17 yrs ago. Our target number was $10,000 per year miminium by her birthday each year. If markets fell, we ante up the difference to keep it up and going. When we had exceptional years, we added to her fund instead of splurging on a vacation etc Delayed gratification!!
We've done this yearly since I was pregnant. Yes, we've sacrificed great vacations, etc but her college and our retirement come first and foremost above anything else.
We're fortunate because we live below our means ( debt free) and still have an exceptional lifestyle. We are hard driven and we run our company as such.
It's a personal opinion and I know we are in the minority. If more parents valued their child's education and prepared for it there would be a lot less college students graduating full of debt from the get go. That's plain wrong to us. Our daughter has the drive because she has grown up with it and there is no way would I send her off to start her life full of debt from day 1.
Call me wrong but we believe the college and retirement should be funded before you spend money you don't have or your bonus check on frivolous trips and material items.
Just my two cents