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Hmm...most diapers I know only go up to 35 lbs. I would recommend hitting up theclothdiaperwhisperer.com to see if they've ever covered it in their blog. You might also try looking on diaperswappers.com or diaperpin.com. They might have some recommendations for larger sized diapers.
You shouldn't need any kind of cream with cloth diapers. Most of the time diaper rashes are non-existent in cloth. You won't be able to use things like butt paste or desitin with cloth. It can't be washed away and your diapers will start to repel. A lot of the cloth diapering moms I know will buy the flushable liners if they have to use cream. There are also some cloth diaper safe creams. Check out kellyscloset.com for some ideas.
Congrats on making the switch :)