B.F.
Hi R.,
From B. we have been taling over e-mail,
I do understand your fears that is why my husband and I chose to keep our son at home through those infant years the thought of another person or persons having to meet the needs of my son scared me; would he get enough love, attention, would he be safe. I worried about this when we would leave him with a sitter just so my husband and I could go out. In the end we have less money to spend on extra material items or fun places and we have to stretch our money because we all know that teacher don't make a lot of money ( my husband is a teacher) but I always knew that my son was safe and being cared for the way I wanted him to be. He is now in preschool at the age of 4. Now I feel I can go back to work soon. I think as moms we love our children so much and sometimes some of us have to work and that can be scary and make one feel helpless inside. Keep in mind as you search for the place or person or persons to care for your infant that you make sure they care for her the way you want them to, that is how I would feel if I had to leave my baby in someone elses care, be picky in your decision making and trust those mommy instinct. This might sound over dramatic but when it comes to my children I am especially picky about who I leave them with. I wish you well and your baby to come.
B. Melanie Ferguson