You might check into the Fllint Academy in Arlington. I have heard mixed reviews, but they are still relatively new and may have worked through the early issues. Are you working with the school district at all? They should be offering ppcd or prek placements. And, girl, go search yahoo for some autism support groups. As more of us seem to be involuntarily joining the autism mommies group, there are more of these popping up. You need some friends who are going through what you are. Your old friends will be there, but they don't know how to relate like those of us going through this. I actually had someone tell me the other day that she thinks God is trying to teach the parents something when he gives us autistic kids-almost like a punishment. Are you kidding me?
God bless! Feel free to email me directly.