A.C.
Have a nice home party. The fact of the matter is she's two and probably will remember all her loved ones around her there as much as Pump It Up(cost us $300 for our son's 5th) or Rollie Pollies when she is older. Save the money for older BD parties when she will really connect to it. There is SO MUCH pressure to make these events bigger and better than the last you went to. So I say "old school' cake & ice cream and a few party games like Pin the Tail on the Donkey or Bean Bag Toss. Good luck and the mouse scares me too!