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I doubt it's a crush on the cartoon character, but an interest in the acts of the cartoons characters...you said a lot of hugging and kissing. I am really very upset with the way even childrens cartoons portray relationships between children, violence, etc...they make it okay and indoctrinate our childrens ideas of what is acceptable...but back to the point...this is probably as close to a porno as this 11 year old pubesent boy is getting and there ya go! Children are getting sexual earlier and earlier. What chance do we have with programs & commercials that are so detailed and telling? I don't know which are worse, but being a grandmother, I cringe. Children are learning too much too fast that they aren't able to psychologically handle. I would definately keep an 11 year old boy and 9 year old girl from being alone together for even a short time. He is changing, or about to, and may not handle it as we would like. Bottom line...why take the chance. What I would prefer is to have the restrictions on programming that we had 40 years ago. I watch TV with the remote in hand when my granddaughter (5) and I watch TV, and I'm talking about the supposed childrens stations! I never let her watch alone...I want to know what she sees and hears so I can address any questions or anything inappropriate. The violence and sex on TV (as well as video games, commercials, magazines, just about any advertising)have gotten WAY out of hand and I believe are a major reason for so many of the problems of todays society and the future.
In todays society the TV and computer are raising too many children instead of their parents and good values. TV should be for entertainment and education and watched by children and parents TOGETHER. TV should not be a babysitter.
Suggest that your friend take her son to the library or book store and get some of the great age appropriate books for her him. It's healthier and will exercise his imagination in a positive way.