M.B.
Listen,listen, listen. She needs support. Someone that doesn't try to fix everything, tell her what she should do, or what she could do better. She needs a sounding board. Do research and give her info. Network for her. Bring dinner, watch her kids, have a girl friends night out. Laugh together. My best friend had breast cancer, I did these things, she told me it was her best medicine. Don't hide, she needs you and you can be there for her.