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My son has it and we ended up getting a mixed compound of the medication in a jar of cream that way it would last a lot longer. It cost about 45 dollars but lasted us about 8 months. It started when he was 2 and took months of consisten treatment to get his skin back to normal.Just a few things to try besides medication. No fabric softner, oatmeal baths ( aveeno has the packets), if no baths to use dove soap. Adveeno, lubiduim, or there is one one I can't remember that starts with a Eq. Also at night we would put vasaline on his nails/fingertips to reduce scratching at night and bleeding. I also put the cream on him 3 times a day, and put him long sleeves and long pants to protect his skin and reduce the agitation from things in the world. I understand it gets hot, but we would make sure it was light enough for him.(i dont know where you live, but we live in phoenix,az so it get REALLY HOTT and he was still okay in the summer) After doing all of these changes then is finally started to go away after months, but if we missed something it would flare up again. so If "mom" isn't doing her part it's not going to get better. Maybe "she" should go to the doctors appt to help confirm that daughter has it. It's a matter of working together to get her to feel better though. I went to my doctor first, but the stuff them gave me didn't work that well, so we went to the dermatologist. ANd that's when we got this amazing compound of hydrocotizone and something else, more powerful then the over the counter stuff.ASK the dermatologist if they can make you a compound so you don't have to pay for the small tubes of medication. I REALLY hope this helps you. GOOD LUCK!