We bought an apartment with cabinets which are stained a dark brown black color and have a matte finish. the look is very modern, and goes nicely with the stainless steel appliances, hardware, and beige granite countertops and backsplash.
I was thrilled and thought I had scored a coup because frankly, my husband would never have chosen something of that ilk were we to re-do the kitchen ourselves. His is a more traditional aesthetic.
While the look is still fabulous, the maintenance, frankly, sucks. Every droplet of water, finger print, and smear shows up against the solid dark wood.
There's something to say for medium wood tones.
Good luck to you and yours,
F. B.