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I just delivered my daughter on Dec 23rd (at 36 wks) via c section. She was 9lbs 3 oz. They did an amnio the day before to make sure her lungs were developed - they were.. and had the c section the next day b/c I experienced a 30lb fluid gain in a week, had pitting edema in my legs and was in absolute MISERY. It's so hard to wait and worry and wonder if things will be okay. My baby was in the NICU for 5 days due to her blood sugar levels that kept dropping. The day before she was discharged we found out she has a heart murmur and that will have to be evaluated by a pediatric cardiologist as an outpatient, BUT the good news is she got to come home with us (I stayed 5 days also due to a few complications with my blood pressure) and since we've been home she has been fine. No prolems. She's eating, peeing, pooping, sleeping, crying, snuggling, smiling and we think she is absolutely PERFECT. Its so hard to know what to do. Thats when you have to listen to the doctors and believe they know what's best. It's emotional torture to have a baby in the NICU, but if your baby should need to be there for a few days be brave, be strong, and know that after the struggle is over, you will have your beautiful baby to hold and love and all the torment will be over. Things will calm down, and for us, as soon as we left the hospital life got 100% better. In the hospital I felt like a lunatic because all I did was cry and worry. As it turns out, I wasn't a lunatic, I was just turning into a mom. Be encouraged. It will be okay. God Bless...