T.G.
I would go with the brunch idea. Very easy and affordable. Almost everything can be made the day ahead so you aren't running around like a crazy woman the day of! Baked french toast is so easy and yummy, get a pre-cut spiral ham, how about a fritta or quiche and maybe mostaccioli or stuffed shells, fruit salad and maybe some mini muffins and then do a cake or for my shower I had a dessert table with cookies, cheesecake and lemon mousse inside phyllo shells.