I have never had a c-section, so I cant comment on what is like, but I can tell you about a V-birth.
It was absolutlly wonderful and I would do it again in a heartbeat. My husband and many friends and family members think I am crazy to say it, but I actually LOVED every minute of labor.
I personally can not imagine having a c-section...or even having an epideral. I had both my children naturally with no drugs what-so-ever and infact got to pull my children out myself once their heads and shoulders were out. It was simply amazing! I also did not have any rips/tears therefor no stiches. (my boy was 9.14 and 22 inches. my girl was 8.12 and 22 inches - so its not like they were little tiny babies)
Now, I know not every labor goes as smooth, and there is always the chance of complications...but I would encourage you to do whatever you can to have a natural birth. It is the most amazing thing that you will EVER experience...as you already know considering this is your second child.
Let me also say, that I am not trying, in any way, to take away anything from a c-section birth = because I am sure that it is amazing as well...after all a new life has entered the world and that is beautiful.
But...for me I just cant imagine not actually going through labor and feeling ever single contration and the need to push etc.
BUT...I do know that in many cases you HAVE to have a c-section for many different reasons...breach being one of those.
I have 2 different friends who had breach babies. Both of them talked not only with the OB about different ways to "flip the baby", but also contacted a midwife and a naturalist drs. to see if they had any tips.
Both woman did what they were instructed to do...and one woman was success in "flipping" her baby and delievering naturally and one still needed the c-section. Unfortunetlly I do not know what those "tips" were to share with you.
I dont know that I have actually given you any tips that you were looking for...but....
Whichever way you deliever your baby, in the end doesnt matter...it is just important that your baby comes into the world peacefully and healthy - same goes for mommy.
Good Luck and Congratulations! :)