I had my breast reduction back in 1981-1982, before babies just before I turned 21, and I still nursed.
I think it was a phenomenal success. And just last month I made a new friend who also had a breast reduction, but just a few years ago. And it's was amazing to compare recovery stories. Mine was a minimum 3-4 month recovery...with a lot of scars. I have the classic scars that run the entire length from armpit to armpit, then around the aerola, then a large piece of pie removed with the long stitch from aerola to bottom scar.
My friend's scars and recovery were minimal compared to mine. Although she had far less removed and no drainage tubes. Her recovery was 2-3 weeks.
Ask your surgeon to draw on your breasts exactly where he would cut and remove during the consultation to see what he is talking about doing. Then you'll definitely know what to expect in terms of scars.
And ditto to your comments about sore necks, headaches, rashes under the boobs, only pull over type clothes with lots of stretch....it's just the way God made us, eh?
What I remember the most post-surgery, was having instant eye contact with everyone. Even women. I don't think people could see past those HH boobs in the beginning.