C.M.
My son's birthday is the same week of Halloween and I cannot wait until he is old enough because I love the old fashioned things: contest for best costume, sack races, apple bobbing in a large bin, wheel barrow races (one person holds the legs of another), and if you don't have a budget...renting a pony for pony rides.
I don't get into the goulish aspect of Halloween, so I decorate in pumpkins and the colors - orange, black, white.
I love the idea of caramel apples, but I wouldn't let a ton of kids playing with caramel in my house (ha!)...I saw an idea to "size down" caramel apples. Scoop small balls from apple, dip in caramel, then put a stick through. Bite-sized and still yummy.
I hope he has a great party!