Hi S.. I too have a February child. Birthday parties can be a bit of a challenge but we always manage to have fun with them. Now that my son is older, he'll be 11 this year, we are going bowling, skating, playing basketball, or indoor soccer for parties. I've transformed my garage and living room into theme spaces since my kids were very young. There's so much you can do when you put your mind to it. We've had a Willy Wonka Party, Blues Clues, Dino Party, Cow Boy Party, and many more in our home and it hasn't been too much trouble. A great website for games and ideas is www.boardmanweb.com I've used that site for ages! Just find an interest of your son's and go with it. If he likes Willy Wonka for instance, you could send invitations that look like golden tickets, you can even put them in Wonka Bars. I found wall paper border with fruit on it for $1 a roll and then melted jolly rancher candy and painted the fruits for lickable paper for the kids treat bags. The cake was on a platform, simply a home made cake covered in various kinds of candy and then the platform sat in a bowl of chocolate milk for the chocolate river. We even had a little toy boat floating in the milk. The kids played games, trying to find the bad goose eggs (paper mache eggs spray painted gold and filled with goodies... one was filled with just paper and marbles but every child had a goodie filled one as a goodie bag) We had fizzy lifting drink (7 up) and the kids made bubbles to take home (glycerin, dish soap, and water)Just have fun with it, there's a million things you could do. The most important thing is to have fun. The kids seem to do that on their own regardless of what we put on for them. :)I think we're planning an NFL party this year... The Bengals of course.