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Our move from California was paid by the government as it was Tyler's last military move. We were packed out and unloaded by a moving company. We were done by weight, not by room.
We were ready to go when the movers came. We had already dumped everything we were not going to take with us. We had yard sales and donated for a month before the movers were expected.
We used everything in the freezer we could, what was still there? We gave to our friends and neighbors. Unopened food? We donated to a local food pantry since food is a heavy item. Your move is not far, ours was across country so we knew the food wasn't going to be in a temperature controlled room while it was in transit.
We got rid of a lot of furniture. That's really heavy too. We had planned on buying a new home when we got here. Kinda starting "fresh". We got rid of all the mattresses too. Again, ours was a cross country move, not 4 hours. We were trying to keep our weight down and it was going to be 30 to 45 days from TMO to arrange for our HHGs to be delivered here in Georgia.
We made sure our bed frames were kept together. Tyler and the boys went through each room and disassembled the bed frames. They took pictures and put the screws in a ziploc bag and taped it to the frame of the bed.
We packed what we were going to take with us in the cars for our trip and put those in the cars before the movers arrived.
We photographed our furniture we were taking with us. Photograph all angles so you could see the condition. Any damage? We noted on our inventory list.
We photographed and logged our DVD collection.
We photographed our portraits and expensive art work. We have a few numbered and signed pieces, so we got close ups of those and the certificates of authenticity. We scanned those in and kept the thumb drive with us.
Since we have made many moves, we knew not to label the boxes other than master, kitchen, glass, etc.
Don't wait until the last minute to do everything.
Make a list of what needs to be accomplished daily 4 weeks prior to the move.
If you have the funds, buy plastic bins that are different colors and use a color for each room. If you don't? Colored tape works well.
I can't stress enough how much you need to get rid of anything you haven't use or won't use. It's wasted weight and use of space.
Do have your own inventory list. This will help you keep track of stuff and you can actually go over and ask yourself "do we REALLY need this"? If the answer is no? Donate or sell it. Do NOT keep it.
My best advise? PURGE!! PURGE!!! PURGE!!!