C.O.
R.,
Aren't you the same R. who needed help with your utility bills and presents for your kids at Christmas?
First, as her mother - you can help her. It's a tad late to teach her about birth control, so now you need to prepare her for life. How is she going to finish school with a baby? Who is going to take care of the baby so she can finish school??
Once those questions are answered, and she has decided to keep the baby and has arranged day care for the baby so she can continue with school, I would go to:
garage sales
consignment shops
freecycle
craigslist
Catholic Charities
Find out what the baby's father is going to do. Find out what his family is going to do. don't rush out and buy anything.
If you can't afford to help her and the baby's father can't afford to help her, then she'll have to contact social services and find out what entitlement programs she can take advantage of. This is real life. There are consequences for her decisions...hope she makes the right one! There are many couples out there who can afford to take care of a baby and have the love (not saying your daughter doesn't love the baby already, but sometimes, one has to acknowledge they are in over their head....these same couples have a lot of love to give as well.
Good luck!