Cheryl O gave you a real good explaination. My suggestion is to get 2WD.
The more metal you move around, the more money it costs you to move that metal. 4WD, fulltime 4WD and AWD costs more than 2WD to buy and to move. 2WD has the fewest moving parts and there fore the fewest parts to break or wear out and the fewest parts to move.
You will get 20+% better fuel economy in 2WD. And unless you plan on going where the roads don't go to go camping, you won't need anything more than 2WD. 2WD vehicles weigh several hundred pounds less than the 4WD, fulltime 4WD and AWD vehicles.
I have driven on roads with sheet ice and snow on them with 2WD while 4WD and AWD vehicles were in the ditch/gutter. Why? A real good driver in a 2WD can do as well or better in bad road conditions than an average driver can in 4WD, fulltime 4WD or AWD vehicles.
Good luck to you and yours.