Hi Mama-
I feel for you in this economy. My best advice is to seek out a credit counselor about your debts, what to do regarding paying them off, or seeing if bankruptcy is your best option. I know that the hours being cut is not your fault. My hubby and I have the same problem. He was working for the state making a decent income ($16-$17/hour) and then job after job, the state let people go. He was out of a job for almost 9 months, with no luck on the unemployment end. I really didn't think we were going to make it. The only job he could get was minimum wage at a music store. We have a lot of debt racked up (previous to this situation) due to just being poor and not budgeting well. Some of the expenses, there was nothing we could do. We had to have groceries, heating and electricity, fuel for the car, rent paid, etc. It's not like you can just NOT pay those things. So other bills sort of went by the wayside. We paid them, but as little as humanly possible. In my situation, even though we lost half of our income as a couple, I felt that because the debts were ours and we had spent that money, we still owed that money, regardless. I used quicken to make a family budget, I took a crown financial course from my church, and I went a met with a credit counselor. Alot of bill collectors, your mortgage company included, will work with you to keep you in your house and keep you paying them money. Because in the end, what they really want is their cash. Plain and simple. Do not allow them to scare you, but do realise that if you want to keep something, it costs. Bankruptcy, if you decide to file, has options, but the lawyers are expensive. A co-worker of mine filed last year. It cost her just under $2,000 to file. She was able to keep her house (her car was paid for, luckily), and then all of her debts, credit or otherwise, were gone. There are repercussions, though, like bad credit, etc.One thing I will say is that you can call your mortgage company first, see what kind of deal to make with them. Call your creditors before you miss payments and let them know not only your situation, but that you would like to pay them but need a lower payment and a fixed rate. This process includes freezing all your credit card accounts/closing them and just making payment after payment until they are gone.
I am not trying to say that you are in my shoes, however I do feel for you and hope that you can keep your home and make it on your current income. Just think, if you can budget yourself down to living on 20 hours a week, imagine if you ever get an increase, what kind of savings you could have! It's all in the silver lining!
Good luck mama- call for a consult to weigh your options. It's a big decision and you need all the info you can get.
-E. M