First of all...try your very hardest to just put this out of your mind for now and concentrate on just enjoy the Labor Day Weekend with your family. You are not going to be able to change a thing by worrying and fretting and the stress will not do you or your little one any good.(That being said, I will tell you that I would be a nervous wreck if I were you...it is much easier said than done to put something like this out of your mind!!!)
My second point is...SHAME ON THAT ULTRASOUND TECH!!!! He/she is NOT trained to interpret the results of the ultrasound, only trained to run the ultrasound machine. I would make a special point of telling your OB/GYN of how upset and frantic you were all weekend long because of the techs remark to you!!! Just think, if the tech had just done his/her job and kept the opinions quiet, you would not be upset and distraught, and the results would all be the same when you see the OB/GYN on Tuesday. This falls under the same idea as the rules I need to abide by where I work as a pharmacy clerk...I am not to give any opinions at all...if they ask a question as simple as "what do I take for a headache"....I immediately call the pharmacist. That is why they wear the white coat, why they went to school for years and years and why they carry very expensive malpractise insurance!!!
God bless you and your little one A....I pray that everything is going to be just fine. But remember, God is in control, try to rest in Him.
R. Ann