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Oh I am so sorry, this must be so incredibly difficult. I have no real advice I just wanted to say I'm thinking of you. My daughter was born 5 lbs and only gained 10 lbs her first year too, finally hitting 15 lbs at 13 months. And I stressed something awful as she's always (and still is) well below 3%. I know it's not at all what you are experiencing, I just know how much I stressed so I can only imagine how you are feeling. But the good news is developmentally doing great is really fantastic. Here's a discussion board where mom are sharing their g tube experiences: http://www.shareyourstory.org/webx/.ef45342 Wish I could be more of a help.