K.T.
WOW! I cannot belive I'm reading this! I just had surgery for this 2 weeks ago! Here's my story... it's gross, but I'm sure if you are having this problem you know what I mean...
I had my second baby almost a year ago. During pregnancy, I felt weird down there, but blew it off thinking it is a perk of pregnancy. Well, about 6 mo. after giving birth, I peed and felt a bulge bigger than usual when I wipped. I had felt it before, but was too embarrassed to ask my hubby to come look at my va-j-j. Well, I had to. And he pushed it back in and said call the dr. I went in the next day and she said I have a bladder and rectal prolapse. So gave me some cream to try to tighten it up and told me to come back in a mo. I did and I didn't even have to bare down to get it to push out. So, she referred me to a urologist- Dr. Anholt @ Memorial city Memorial Hermann hospital. Well, he looked at me and said no doubt about it, I needed surgery. There are 2 things you can do- tacking it up or putting a sling in. Tacking could fall and you would have to do it again in 5 yrs. or so. The sling is permanant. I opted for the sling. I feel great! I feel back to normal. I can now play again with my kids. I feel like I have my life back and my kids have their mommy back! I had gotten so bad and depressed that all I had energy and pain level for was to go to work. I would come home and lay in bed and watch TV without really "watching" tv. Dr. Anholt is the bomb! He didn't tell me this, but I learned that Dr.s come from all over the world so that he can teach them how to do this surgery. He had done well over 600 of these and is considered the best. The day I had my surgery I was so drugged, but the next day I was up walking and felt fine. Pooping was an experience though- but that got better in like 3 days. It sounds like I had exactly what you have. Dr. Anholt said that sex for the first year may feel "rougher" to my husband. Bascially because he sewed a mess piece in between my Va-j-j and my organs. Eventually my tissue will grow through it and around it causing it to become part of me, but it takes time. But, with the pain I was having sex HURT. Actually, I had the surgery 1/10/08. I just can't run, jump or have sex for about another month. Yesterday I walked a mile and played catch with my oldest and I haven't been able to do that for a LONG time. I hope this helps! Good luck and let me know what's going on with you.