I have 3 birds, and have worked in exotic veterinary medicine for over 10 years.
Birds are NOT appropriate pets for very young children.
A cockatiel's lifespan, with proper care, could be 25 years or more. Lovebirds and parakeets, also with proper care, should be around for 10-15 years. They are highly intelligent and social animals and should not be treated as "starter" or "disposable" pets. Also lovebirds should not be kept in pairs. "Love"bird is a bit of a misnomer. They tend to bully eachother mercilessly.
With proper care; including lots of fresh cooked foods and raw vegetables, a very large clean cage (birds are messy), and lots of stimulating toys and lots of interaction and socialization, and regular veterinary care they are not what I would consider a low-maintenance pet.
I have 2 dogs and 2 cats also and they are easier to care for than my birds.
Birds are extremely sensitive to airborne pollutants. If you keep a bird it is necessary to give up all your glade plug-ins, carpet freshener, scented candles etc. Also you CANNOT use anything made with PTFE coatings. That means no non-stick cookware, no using the self-cleaning feature on your oven, etc.
Think how they used canaries in coal mines, their respiratory systems are very delicate.
All birds can and will bite. Although a parakeet is not capable of doing any serious damage, their bites will hurt a small child. Lovebird bites will draw blood and sting like heck. Cockatiels are least likely to bite, and tend to be all -around the most agreeable. You cannot scold a bird, and most of the smaller guys cannot be potty trained...and they poop every 15 minutes or so.
All birds can be loud. If you are easily bothered by repetitive, annoying, or high pitched sounds then a bird might not be for you.
If you are interested I can direct you to some good, honest information about birds.
I do love my birds. As loud and messy and demanding as they are, they do give it all back. They are sooo smart and do honestly have senses of humor. They are sweet and cuddly, and obstinant and opinionated. I swear sometimes they act just like small feathered people :)
I'm due to have my first baby any day now, so it will be interestiong to see what new and annoying noises the baby teaches the birds LOL!
-C.
Owned by a 20 yr old African Grey, 9 year old Senegal Parrot & an 8 year old Cockatiel.