Dear T.,
I am so sorry for your pain and anxiety. I have had panic/anxiety since I was 7 No doctor would ever diagnose me with panic. I landed in the ER so many times just to hear that nothing was wrong with me. I am now 60 years old. I have made it my business to start support groups and now in email, I support the poor soul that anguishes with this horrid disorder. IT IS NOT A MENTAL DISORDER!!! It is not just on your head. Please, please let me know if I can help you, my friend. I DO know whatyou are going through. I thought I had cancer, having a heart attack, a brain tumor, and many other things which never happened.
T., you are NOT alone in this terrible ordeal!
I want to help!
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Bless you,
Richard T
How To Breathe the Right Way
Many people with panic disorder breathe shallowly, which may lead to increased anxiety and even panic. This technique will help you learn the right way to breathe -- deeply and with your diaphragm.
Here are very specific things for getting a panic attack to diminish, that have worked for me. It's a process of coming down, as you know. These are all specific things that more than once have helped me. My hope is there is something here that might help. It feels horrible, doesn't it? You can get better. Forget about perfection!
Difficulty: N/A
Time Required: Varies
Here's How:
I firmly tell myself to SLOW DOWN. I repeat calming phrases (see below #6) silently and very slowly. I physically slow my movements. I move my arms gently and slowly to try and bring body and mind down from the racing. It can work!
Light more than one candle (take care with flame). Stay as near to the candles as you can and try to let yourself go, to gently pull that golden light within you. Think: "I have a light that is this beautiful and strong INSIDE ME all the time, even if I can't always FEEL it." This is true.
It's likely my panic attack started from thinking too much. If so, my mind is racing with just THOUGHTS. Yes, my body feels like HELL because of this. But it's because of just thoughts, and I can pull in helpful thinking just the way I grabbed onto the nasty ones. My body will NOT go out of control, nor will my mind. My fear of this is only a THOUGHT. If out in public, I will head in the direction of a more safe place now, thinking: "I can do this! I can do this!"
I am much LARGER than this panic attack and this disorder. It is a part of my experience right now and I really hate it, but I am a lot bigger than it is. This is true even if it does not feel like it and no matter how low you go. Believe it!
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No matter how important the reasons the panic attack began are, I feel this way because I am OVERREACTING. I will be OKAY. I WILL be OKAY. Yes this will pass; yes it will.
Panic attack affirmations that have helped bring me back down (see above):
Calm is available now.
I am overreacting.
I am quite SAFE; it's just a perception that I'm not.
Are these thoughts helpful to me as I LOVE MYSELF?
This comes from a part of me that hates myself, and I'm NOT going to let it win, no way.
Go outside, or look out a window, and watch trees. Look at all they endure (weather, seasons, age, storms) with such grace and beauty. They live many moments of stillness and quiet peace. I have that ability and then some.
Put on a music tape (that you made earlier!) of songs that have irresistible nice feelings to them but do not jazz you up. I find most of mine from the early 60's, like Up On the Roof, Up Up and Away by the Fifth Dimension, and Smile by Nat King Cole. Whatever your favorites are that always feel good, make a tape of them; tape even just half a dozen. The right songs have stopped a panic attack for me.
Have a panic attack notebook where coping approaches that have helped are WRITTEN DOWN. For your car have a similar notebook plus any other panic attack "first aid" kit ready to go. For me this includes bringing a beverage in case I need to take some medicine. Keep mozzarella string cheese in your fridge; grab some when you get lightheaded hungry feelings.
If you can, call a crisis line and tell them you are having a panic attack. Saying it out loud to a person I do not know has helped me. You can thank them and hang up at anytime.
What You Need:
Notebooks
Cassettes or CD's
Candles
Comfort items
From-http://panicdisorder.about.com