HI, I am a firm believer in antidepressants, whether pregnant or not. My daughter is a suicidel bipolar, and her pregnancy would have been the end of her if it weren't for antidepressants. Her son was born with birth defects however, but suposedly none were linked to the meds she was on. One of the meds she was on before she knew she was pregnant was depecote,or however you spell that, which is known for causeing birth defects, she was on it and it counter acted with her birth control patch she was on. I'm still not convinced that didn't do some harm to her little guy. But once she knew she was pregnant they put her on safer meds, but she was nearly four months pregnant when she found out she was, she had periods right along. There are so many types of meds out there, and most are safe, you're doctor wouldn't put you on any that wouldn't be. And for you to funtion normally you may need them. Post pardom depression is really bad for bipolars as well, so meds are a life savor of the whole family. Never rule them out, if you think you need them, you probably do. Good luck to you.