It's sad that motherhood is divided by 'issues' and that opinions become judgements.
We did circumcise both of our boys. We did it because we wanted them to 'look' like their father. We did not want them to come running into the bathroom while he was taking a shower and say "hey, why do I look different?"
I don't think either boy was traumatize by this event. They are both healthy, well socialized, above grade level individuals. They cried very little during the event when they were infants. The fact that they are circumcised never comes up.(maybe this isn't a good way of saying they don't talk about it:) )
But, I don't care who is and who isn't. We had to do what was right for our family at that time and so do all other families. When I became pregnant a third time, I found out immediately that we were having a girl (happens when you find out at 16 1/2 weeks along) and I do remember thinking, "Oh good, I won't have to make that decision again." But of course, many other decisions have to made for and about her all the time.
Good luck!