I saw the other thread about this before I saw this one. I haven't watched the GMA segment you cited in your SWH either, but I don't really need to watch it to know how I feel about what the teacher did. However, since reading one of the poster's remarks that the mother is talking on the TV about it, I will say that the mom is irresponsible by trying to make this her "15 minutes of fame", and that is not going to help her daughter in life, at all. (I hate those kind of people - blech! The majority of them are usually really selfish, and life is all about THEM! I know, I know, terrible over-generalization!)
I'm going to copy and paste my same response here that I wrote in the other thread:
If the child were older, it wouldn't bother me. But kids don't really "get" sarcasm until they're at least 10 years old, and sarcastic adults around children tend to border on abusive, in my opinion. I had my kids in gymnastics one place I lived, and one of the instructors was absolutely wonderful - I told him that when he applied to college (he couldn't afford to go and was working for several years to save the money) that I would write him a recommendation letter for his dream of being an elementary ed teacher, if he wanted me to - he was THAT great with kids. But the other instructor was what I NOW call a dickhead. (Sorry...) I heard his crappy remarks over and over until I "broke" and told him that I was sick of hearing how much he didn't like his job in front of the kids. He looked shocked and said he loved his job and I told him that the kind of sarcasm he dishes out on little kids, it sure didn't sound like it. From then on, he shut his mouth around me, though I'm sure he said plenty in front of the kids. (I doubt he listened to my admonition - people like that don't care whether it's wrong, to be honest.)
I don't know if this teacher you are talking about is the same kind of person or not, but I don't think I'd let that pass. Children this age generally don't understand the sarcasm, but it does affect them. It makes them feel bad inside, a little sick. When they get older, if they've heard stuff like this enough, they start to act sarcastic too.
This is probably how I would have handled it. I would have a talk with the teacher and maybe calmly torn her "award" into pieces in front of her. Then tell her that a caring instructor would sit a student down and have a heart-to-heart talk about the homework excuse problem. If she wants to be sarcastic with students, she needs to move to a higher grade where kids are old enough to understand her "jokes". I wouldn't be mean or catty. But tearing that award up in front of her would speak volumes.
Dawn