Kids at that age will get picky sometimes because of grew spurts (eating more) and inbetween spurts (eating less). These can last a short time or long time. Be patient. Only offer healthy foods and cut back on the amount of her snack so she won't be so full at meal time. Make sure you offer milk at all three main meals but don't let her fill up on that before eating a few bites of everything on her plate. When she's going through these stages, offer less on her plate at meal time and things that she will like better, if possible. For example, if you're thinking of which vegetable to make with dinner and she likes carrots, add those to dinner rather than beans that she may not like.
Give her a multi-vitamin complete every day to make up for anything she misses through out each day during her picky days. Doesn't matter what time of day or night, just be sure it's not before bed after she's brushed her teeth.
Concerning the "vomiting", it's all in her head. I had a child like that and have seen others do this too, boys and girls. Because they're having a lower appetite right now, they're just not hungry, but we don't want them to become unhealthy or even lose weight if they're already thin. So be firm and to not tolerate this behavior. Insist that she eat at least one or two bites of each course on her plate (veggie, meat, noodles). I have no problem "bribing" a child to eat and earn a treat when they're done, but be sure it's something healthy and not junk cuz then she'll fight even more on not eating. So an apple/orange/pear/banana if she eats 2 bites of everything is fair but be sure she's not playing you, lol!
If she does do the game playing, give a warning to stop. If she does not, she is to leave the table. If you know she will fall asleep don't send her to her room or to the couch. Make her sit there with you at the table until everyone is finished, and talk about how good and healthy the food is, and how each food helps which part of your body. i.e. "These carrots are really helping my eyes!" It won't mean anything at the moment but it'll be stuck in her brain and she'll remember later.
K. B
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