L.S.
Hi J.,
I actually had this as a child, only it wasn't caught until I was 11 years old. My doctor kept telling my mom I must have been having ear infections, when I was actually having UTI's. Anyway, at age 11 I had a very serious kidney infection which is when they found out I had kidney reflux in my left kidney. By the time they caught it, 80% of my kidney was already destroyed. The urologist put a stent in the opening to the kidney to prevent the reflux, and since then I have not had any issues. He said had they caught it earlier, they would have been able to save the entire kidney. I am now 28, and still have not had any more issues. I would definitely get a second opinion before surgery, as there may be other options that are less invasive. Best wishes!