K.T.
Congrats on your new baby. We had to use the nipple shield when my duaghter was born because she was very tiny and we had a latch problem. We used it for about 4 weeks. After about 3 weeks I was annoyed (for those same reasons you mentioned.) To ween her...I did the same thing someone else recommended. I used it to get her to latch and once the milk started flowing -- I would take her off the breast and remove the shield and put her back on. Then after a few days of that I just started trying to get her to latch by herself. Sometimes it worked -- sometimes it didn't and she would get frustrated. I also found that nighttime was harder. But after about a week of the above process -- she just quit using it -- and we have been nursing fine without it ever since (she is now 13 months). She is my first child -- so I think it just took a few weeks for us both to figure things out. Maybe after a coupld of weeks -- he'll figure things out too. ;-)