L.W.
My son is the exact same way! He is 4 1/2 now and has been doing this since he was 2 1/2. If there was someone taking the pink toy I believe he may very well knock that child out just to get the pink item. We don't have any girls in the house but he just loves everything girlie. We haven't held him back in any way. It has indeed gotten worse with age, he refuses to drink out of a "non-pink" cup and also goes with red a lot, as it is closest to pink. His favorite characters from books and movies are all based on their association with pink. It has become a complete obsession. We think he may grow out of it once in school, but honestly, I don't hold my breath. We love him the way he is, we point out his obsession with pink when we are in public. We get some strange looks but honestly, he is happy, we are happy and dude, it's PINK! One of the best colors ever, how many pieces of candy are pink! I don't want him to be picked on in school, but there are so many ways to defend his love of pink, princesses, bows and ribbons. If he wanted to wear a dress I would let him, just to see what he thought of it, you could make it a kilt so you had a reason behind it but why. He is a happy child and pink is a happy color, ribbons are fun, skirts are awesome to twirl. Why should boys miss out on all that awesome stuff just because of some different equipment! I always tell my boys "don't let the 'man' bring you down, be the person you want and were meant to be, no matter who or what that is."