L.L.
Hi J.,
You need to make sure what your husband and his ex's divorce settlement says. I've got two children and am their custodial parent, however, my lawyer told me that since my ex pays child support (whether or not he takes care of them), he's entitled to claim the kids. He suggested that we take every other year and the ex could get the opposite, but since I've got two kids, I claim one every year and Dan claims one. I think it stinks because Dan is only a playmate to them and doesn't enforce anything my husband and I try to teach the children. You should have your husband make sure what the settlement says. If indeed it is fraud, here is the IRS's toll free number to report it:
1-800-829-0433.
I know how frustrating ex's (and their families) can be. My husband has an awful one. lol She lied to him and told him she was allowed to claim both of their sons, eventhough one stayed with him. Talk about burning my cookies!
Good luck!!!
L. L.