Hi T.
My husband and I have been trying to adopt domestically for almost 2 years now. Our agency is Adoption Associates. They have several locations throughout the state. We chose them because of personal recommendations and because they do the most domestic adoptions yearly in the state. There are other agency's you can choose. Bethany Christian is one with a Christian focus, also Catholic Social Services.
I believe with most agencies, you need to first attend an information meeting and fill out an initial application. Then you will be assigned a case worker & start your homestudy. The homestudy is not tough, just a bit time consuming.
Before you do this though, I would really examine what your goals are. Do you really want an infant? Do you long to have another baby to hold? Does it matter what race the baby is? Or do you really feel there is enough room in your home and in your hearts to give a child a home who does not have one? The reason i ask is because there are different ways through which you can adopt. The average time frame for a caucasain baby right now is 18-24 months. When we started this, they told us 12-18 months. They say that for every baby placed for adoption, there are about 100 families waiting to adopt that baby.
If an infant is what you want then I would suggest a few things. Get started soon with a good agency. You may want to be open to going outside the state. There are many other websites with parent profiles and free national lists that you can take part in. If money is no object then you may want to consider a larger national agency like Adoption Network Law Center. They claim to have an average 9-12 month wait. very expensive though!
Another option is to adopt through foster care. This is something DH and I are considering. Truly you would be giving a home and family to a child who needs one. You could still possibly get an infant but a little less likely. For this you need to become foster parents first.
My biggest piece of advice is to have patience. I never dreamed We would still be waiting almost 2 years later, but here we are. I don't mean to discourage you. I think adoption is a great thing and a wonderful way to add to your family. call around to several agencies. They will all send you a packet of information, then go to the information meetings. You will learn a lot through that.
Good luck to you. I hope everything works well for you. I would be happy to talk with you further if you like. I really wish I had someone to tell me the ins and outs at first. Feel free to e-mail, ____@____.com
R.