I had mine out, it's not a huge deal, though it helped me a whole lot. Before I always had sore throats, since then I rarely do. If they do the surgery, I really recommend lots of popsickles instead of ice cream - IC really felt like it clogged my throat, whereas the popsickles helped a whole lot. My daughter had a cleft pallet repair surgery & a couple times had tubes put in her ears, it is never easy to put your kids in someone's hands like that. If she trusts the doc, it goes a lot easier. So do homework on the doc, then listen to what they say. Good docs sure make it a lot easier.
D.