People come in all sorts of personalities.
But, eventually, a person has to learn, how to cooperate/be respectful/learn/be dutiful/be responsible/be aware of themselves and the time and place to do it. As required. DESPITE their "personality."
It has nothing to do with academics.
One day, no one will put up with it.
And do know that, yes, students like that DISRUPT the entire classroom. And it is NOT funny. And yes, ALL the other kids, KNOW darn well, which kid is like that, and the other parents... know... it....too.
I know a classroom, that has about 4 kids like that in it.
OH it is their personality!
Wowee!
But ya know what? ALL the other classmates, COMPLAIN about those kids. AND the Teacher is really having a hard time, because, not even the parents think anything is wrong with it, and the DISRUPTION that those kids cause. Some of them are VERY smart. Some are not. BUT they all have that personality! "Oh but my son is so personable... one day he will make a GREAT Lawyer!" or "One day it will come in handy for her!" type thing. Yeah. But what about now? It is negative for the whole classroom. Those kids aren't "cool" even if they think they are.
And the other kids will say, "our table gets in trouble, because of just them...." and the other kids get pissed off. It is unfair, to the other students that are doing as they are expected to.
Those kids have no, self-reflection.
At all.
And it is self-centered.
And it is not just an age thing or a gender thing.
It is time to just be blunt with your daughter.
She is 8.
Just tell her, her behavior is NOT appropriate. She is causing OTHER students... dismay and difficulty and the Teacher too. That is NOT funny. It is not funny anymore. She is not 2 years old.
Gosh, so many kids just have a personality!
What reprimands does her Teacher do? When kids are like this?
Nothing has worked. With your daughter.
I know one teacher, that will have the child, just STAY right next to the Teacher, ALL day, ALL day. And then they stay in for recess too. And do their work that they missed, while fooling around, in class. At that time.
But for one student, the parent thought that was SO MEAN, of the Teacher! How dare she! . So well, then the Teacher could not do anything. Nothing. To correct the student. Teachers can only do so much, and when they have a class of some 25 or so students or more.