8 Month Old Scratching and Pinching

Updated on August 05, 2010
A.M. asks from Denton, TX
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My son Joseph is 8 months old and started to be really dependent on twirling my SKIN between his fingers to go to sleep.He's always been string and pinched slightly but since he's gotten stronger it's gotten really bad and I noticed today that he can't fall asleep hardly at all if he's not pinching/scratching my chest as I rock him. Is this normal?what can I do to wean him off of my skin?He's drawn blood this last time and I think thats as far as I want to go with it.He hurts everyone that holds him but especially me when I'm rocking him.Let me know any ideas or helpful hints PLEASE thanks

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M.S.

answers from Dallas on

Poor baby...I would try 2 things...transfer his pinching/scratching technique to an object like an stuffed animal or blanket. While he is awake show him how to do it so maybe he will be familiar with it at nighttime/naptime. Second, at 8 months if you want to rock to bond, read books, cuddle, feed thats great but I would suggest you let him start putting himself to sleep. Find a bedtime routine that works for you and then let him and his "pinching" friend fall asleep together in his crib with out you. Good luck and like everything else don't expect change quickly. He will have to change habits and relearn his comfort method...and you can heal ;)

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L.A.

answers from Reno on

OK my son does this sometimes too ...and dang can those tiny little fingers pinch hard.
I usually just move his hand and say " nice hands please" and then sort of pat or rub his hand. I don't think he means to hurt it just feels different and he's sort of trying to keep himself awake.
Good luck

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N.B.

answers from Toledo on

I would say "OWWW!" every time he does it, look hurt, and move his hand away. He doesn't know that he's hurting you unless you show him in an exaggerated way. Since he's been doing it for awhile, it M. take a few days to break the habit. I agree with the suggestion to cover his hands, too, until he stops. You don't want him pinching others.

L.A.

answers from Austin on

He is not doing this to hurt you, but since it does, put socks on his hands.. do not allow him to continue to do this to you.

It is a habit at this point, but he can sooth in s different way.. Maybe try to place something soft over yuourself that he can scratch and pull on.

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K.H.

answers from Washington DC on

It is normal for them to go through a stage of pulling hair , pinching skin etc and it is up to you to tell him no and make him understand that it hurts. If I were you though I really wouldn't want to get into the habit of rocking him to sleep and being dependant on twirlng your hair to be able to get to sleep. What happens when he wakes in the night and cannot soothe himself back to sleep , and you have to end up going in so he can twirl your hair. I would start now putting him down awake and getting himself to sleep.....just my opinion though

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