B.C.
Hi T.,
I agree that you need to continue on with the specialist.
But, being in the natural health field, these would be what I would try at home.
a. I don't know if you're breastfeeding or if he's on formula, but it sounds like he may have an allergy (consider milk, formula, wheat) - creates the extra phlegm, gassiness, hard stools. So you might try changing either what he's being fed or you own diet if you're breastfeeding and see it that makes a difference.
b. The medical community doesn't seem to consider this, but sometimes a yeasty issue causes this - you mentioned 'white' stuff. If it were me, I'd try adding a probiotic to his diet (if I were breastfeeding, I would add it to my diet, perhaps my body is imbalanced in the intestinal flora). A capsule can be opened and added to food that isn't hot. It won't hurt him.
There are also some simple massage techniques you can use on his little tummy to help relax him and perhaps encourage digestion.
You're right to be concerned - you want his colon to be working properly and not set him up for major colon issues as he gets older. If you'd like more info, just contact me and I'll get more info to you.
Blessings,
B. C., CR, CCI, BCRS,
Natural Health Coach
Essential Oil & NSP Herb Specialist
Certified Newborn Massage Instructor
Certified CARE Instructor