J.H.
Well not to worry, I am now 40 years old and had that surgery as a child. I had the first surgery on one eye at 10 months old and the second @ 6-7 years old. I can understand how scary that would be but I look back at pictures of me then and my eyes were just as you describe. I wore glasses until the age of 10 and then I didn't need them anymore. As for my vision, one eye is perfect and the other is o.k. I still have one eye that wonders when I am tired but not often. Your daughter will remember that she had eye surgery but she won't remember the details. Just hang in there, you will get through this and so will she. At least now they have better choices with glasses, I had cat glasses it was the 70s.
Take Care,
J. H.
Mother of 16yo girl and 6yo boy.