Hi E.,
My name is J. Simpson and I am a lactation consultant in Sacramento. Let me give you the facts on what should be happening.
First - babies should be gaining somewhere around 5-7 ounces per week on average from birth to 4 months - then it drops down a bit. Had you called me I'd be asking you LOTS of questions because gaining 10 ounces in 8 weeks is not enough.
Second - yes babies follow their own growth curve and sometimes they do drop a bit - but 75% to 25% is a large drop and worth trusting your gut to look into.
Third - No there is nothing wrong with your milk. But clearly something is going on here. so let's take a look at some things that can set up a situation like yours (one I have worked with many moms on over the last 14 yrs being in practice).
A) have you started birth control pills in the past 2 months? Any birth control pill that contains any amount of estrogen WILL compromise your milk supply. Birth control pills that are progesterone only (mini-pill)can cause issues with milk supply - amount and fat content can be changed and we do have research that backs this up. I have worked with too many moms who were started on the mini-pill only to have to go off due to the side-effects to their milk supply and content.
B) Allergy meds - or medications for colds that contain antihistamines or pseudephedrine. These can dry up or significantly reduce the supply if taken continually for several days.
C) Scheduling the baby's feeds - many parenting 'programs' strongly (and wrongly) encourage Parent Directed Feedings or rigid scheduling of babies feedings. These can be quite harmful to the baby and the milk supply. Babies need to eat 8-12 times (or more for some) in 24 hours. Waking at night to feed is 100% normal - go with it. If he wakes, feed him. :) Take a look at your feeding routine - are you imposing a schedule on him or are you working with his cues and supporting his need to eat when he needs? When we rigidly enforce a feeding schedule we can inadvertently reduce feedings and therefore intake by baby. Reducing the intake by baby results in reducing our supply - both of which will reduce baby's weight gain...
Please, Please - talk to a Lactation Consultant in your area or feel free to call me at ###-###-#### (no charge for a phone consult!). Trust your gut here: It sounds like your gut is saying something isn't quite right here - listen to that - don't blow it off. And I have worked with Dr's who blew off mom's concerns about their baby's weight gain when the baby was clearly having weight gain issues (how does a 4 month old gaining only 2 ounces in 4 weeks NOT raise a red flag??). Peds mean well, but not all will catch that a baby/mom is having a struggle - this comes directly from 3 of my clients who are pediatricians. :) They just don't see you often enough and often times don't have the time to really sit down and read the charts...
Lastly, I've been in your shoes - many years ago with baby #1. I wasn't taught to trust my gut - and so I believed all the Dr's told me - knowing inside that something just wasn't right. They say hind-sight is 20-20...boy is it! Had I known then what I know now...things would have been a lot different. :) So, trust yourself and call me if you like.
Warmly,
J. Simpson, IBCLC, CIIM
Breastfeeding Network
www.breastfeedingnetwork.net
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