A.R.
Hi, My daughter was like that at that age. She could only be around one of my sisters,my mom sometimes grandpa and dad. She was afraid of everyone else and also all the mommies in the playgroup we went to once a week. She was fine with kids. We had a hard time and I was always nervous about taking her anywhere there were going to be a lot of people. She is now four and sooo much better. We always told her in advance who was going to be there, and told her that we will always keep her safe. As she got older, we started telling her that it was alright to feel the way she felt, but that she had to make feel people welcome if they came to the house by just waving at them. She was willing to do that. So she would wave at people when she first met them. Then slowly we started encouraging her to shake hands and smile and then eventually hugs. But we only encouraged this with people we met on a regular basis not people we were going to meet for the first time. She is so much better now and so friendly, what also helped was when her baby sister was born(18 mos now). Baby sister loves people. Total opposites. My first daughter now feels a lot more comfortable because she has someone who breaks the ice. So it will pass. Just be patient and realize she genuinely feels uncomfortable and needs to now that you understands how she feels but that your are 100% in her corner and ready to help her through it. My oldest daughter will probably always be shy but we have to equip her with the tools to feel confident no matter what. So that's our goal. Good luck.