C.; first of all most kids can potty train the pee, but most get the poo down later, dont push the potty thing, do what you can when you can, second, hitting is not allowed, children need boundaries, if its not ok for you to hit her , why is she allowed to hit you , you are sending mixed signals, its ok to take action, if something does not work, its ok to find a punishment that does, a good swift swat on the butt wont hurt her, i think its padded there enough with a diaper and all that butt fat, dont use other items, just your hand will do, if the butt dont work a small slap on the hand and a firm no, will also help, never hit in the face, and dont use hitting as a game, or let it be allowed to anyone, but she will know that hitting for discipline is way different than hitting for just hitting, discipline does not always have to be hitting, and it should not, use it when its needed, when other things dont work, you are not a bad parent for disciplining your child, what makes a bad parent is one allowing the hitting to continue, and also a bad parent is one who hits all the time, you are not doing this, you dont want this to continue, it will shock her that you took action, it might be hard at first, but just be firm, no laughing, that will only continue it, a good strong firm grabbing her arm while in motion too might do the trick, and a strong NO! then maybe a time out, do what you can, but just remember if you need to use the swat on the butt, its ok, just dont ever misuse it, and youll be fine, well dont know if it helps, D. s