J.M.
Hi P.:
Answering your baby's cries at this early age,is all part of bonding with her.I can't believe that your nanny is suggesting that you leave her cry at 4 months old. Everyone has their own methods and beliefs as far as cio,However at this time,your daughter is to young to even consider that method.I don't get it sometimes.Do people think that you have a baby ( merely for show or what? We have babies to love and nurture. (Not leave alone to cry for their mothers arms. You follow your motherly instincts P..If your heart tells you to go to her,don't you let anyone inhibit you.As another mother said here. You (CANNOT)spoil a baby.And, you can never display (TO MUCH LOVE)I wish you and your beautiful girl the best. J.